# posted by NoBrainRequired @ 10/13/2010 07:58:00 PM
Marriage: First Reaction?
For me, the engagement was the big deal. Marriage is just kinda like an aftershock.
Underwhelming, isn't it?
I totally agree with your sentiment. So much goes into engagement, the wedding planning, the ceremony. It just builds and builds and builds and then....then one day later you wake up and its just you and her and nothing is different.
I don't think I actually felt like I was married until 2 or 3 years in.
Best of luck!
Top 5 Phrases in a happy marriage:
1)Yes dear
2)Sorry dear
3)It was Matt's idea
4)I'll try to remember that
5)If thats what you want to do...
haha i like #3